Decision-making and internal debate
"You will know you are doing the right thing when you are rewarded with peace." Oprah Winery When I think about any decision, I talk to myself through other people's mouths; Friends, co-workers, or Imaginary People. Anyone who I imagine their opinion is in contrast to mine. Furthermore, it is also impossible to change theirs. Here we enter the battlefield (the internal discussion). There I judge my "tone"... Is it an angry, sarcastic, or "competing to a crowd" one? Then my decision is not ready and needs more reflection. Here we must sit still, take a breath, and re-re-reflect on the things that appear to us in need of a fight. Take a breath and seek the essence of your resistance. *Example* If the decision has something to do with money, then what does "money" mean to you, or "the value of it": Power to elevate pain, sacred, easy as it comes and goes, challenging to obtain, etc. If there is a word that rings from all the values, th...